I dont understand the male ego. It surprises me even more when the guys take pride in their ego. A friend of mine blogged (a guy friend of course) blogged that he hates seeing girls on bikes or wearing denim or holding beer!! a girl friend of mine was told by a guy friend of her that "lyadh" is a guy word. What exactly do you mean by guy words? that they are harsh? So, do you mean, you dont want girls to say harsh words or slang? Why? Is that because you think girls should not be as powerful as you are or should not do the things you do. Or you are scared that if they do, they will be better in those jobs than you and and you will lose your place? Doesn't that make them losers? If you can do well competing against women who can do the same job as you, then only you can say I am better in that.
Don't get me wrong. I am not a feminist. I hate gender discrimination in any kind. Some companies nowadays only females because they want to make the number of men and women equal. I find that stupid and wrong. When it comes to a sensitive area as job market, people should be recruited based on merits, not gender. Why wouldnt the guys feel bad? Its already so hard to get a job and everybody is working their ass off so that they can make a decent living. Now if a particular gender gets the upperhand just coz they are born with a vagina, its absolutely unfair!!!
Anyways, as I was saying, I hate male egos. I have seen 99% of the guys can't take it if their girlfriend or wife is doing better in career than them. While I have seen very few girls having problems with their men being more successful than them. In fact, many girls willingly give up their job and let let their husband earn.(though I personally dont like it, I dont wanna hurt the feelings of those who does it willingly). But guys? No, never! No matter how much they say, they wont mind. In the end, their ego gets bruised. And all these leads to a broken relationship or a failed marriage. Why guys?? Look around and think. Its time you change your views. Women will be sucessful. You can hold it against them. Some may be better than you. You gotta take it. Just in the way you dont mind a friend better than you, you should also not mind when your girl is better than you. You should be proud of her. Just like she was proud of you when you were doing better than her.
7 comments:
u r hard hitting...at times.is it ur mood again? :D just joking...i agree...
matha ta kemn bhari bhari lagche !!! :P
Heh, I guess someone had a rough day! Relax, put on your denim, get on your bike, go to a pub and order a beer. Then all the bad thoughts will float away...
i dunno what this site has against me but it keeps posting shit when i post a comment... neways
note to self: never mind when a girl is using slangs... she takes offense to not being able to slang properly :P
abt the corporate market... lol!!! if guys used to get preference before on account of having dicks, then i'd say this would be somewhat of a payback
and now now wittle sis, u shouldn't generalize u know... there are decent guys around who don't give a damn if their girlfriends are better placed than they are... that maybe principally coz they leech off their women, but thats another issue <_<
hi, i started out this online query to find people with similar problems: females who hate male ego. and i guess i found you. (let me know how you are dealing with it so far) even though i hate the male ego, i still want to include males in my life (currently non-existent or insignificant) and i have not figured a way to do this. i guess what i need to researched on is how to find guys who are not chauvinistic or egoistic enough to turn me off.
But hey, thanks for sharing your frustrations. They are very real. They would be what's haunting me. But i guess i can also ask for advice from a harmless male friend.
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